KEEP ON HELPING.....

When SOMEONE APPRECIATES everything that you do...IT'S A DREAM COME TRUE. - David Tutera

KEEP ON DREAMING.....

A New York State of Mind is an UNstoppable State of Mind. - Alicia Keys

Our Black IS BEAUTIFUL

The Black Women is the most pride efficent possession in the world. We are strong, dedicated, loving, and wise. For decades there has always been a discussion about the Black Woman and her lifestyle. ABC, rappers, actors, and our own race place us under a broken mirror to be the topic of discussion. But today all that negative power and disgrace ends. We will no more be the broken glass on the floor but instead the light that guides our children, careers, and families. ABC did a whole show on Why a Black Woman Can't find a Man? Several successful Black Women was showcased and they all talked about what they wanted in a man. Steve Harvey a black man said that they all needed to lower their standards and basically settle for what they do not want. Why must we settle? Men do not settle instead they cheat with multiple women and go to rehab for a sex addiction. Rappers degrade the black woman in their songs and videos, they call us bitches, high class, and stuck up. Today I say to those rappers, Your mothers are the Black Woman and when you talk about us not wanting to be your little freak, sex toy, and push over...you are talking about your mother too. We will no longer be anyone BITCH, SLUT, or HOE. Black Women lead a nation to freedom and now a world full of riches wants to take our POWER but you can not take it...because You SLIM THUG, RAP ARTISTS, and TV NETWORKS did not give it to us. God gave us the power to be whatever we want to be. BLACK WOMEN I LOVE YOU AND I'm SO PROUD TO BE ONE OF YOU.

I MADE IT!!!!

TODAY MY FRESHMEN YEAR OF COLLEGE IS OFFICALLY OVER. WOW...TIME FLIES!!!! ALL I CAN SAY TO MYSELF IS THAT...YOU HAVE MADE IT...I MADE IT. THIS JOURNEY HAS BEEN AN EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER. FROM BEING HOMESICK, CRYING, LAUGHING, AND LEARNING. I WOULDN'T CHANGE ANYTHING. I WAS VERY SUCCESSFUL AND DRIVEN. THIS SUMMER BREAK, I WILL REFLECT UPON THE THINGS THAT I DID GREAT AND THE THINGS THAT NEEDS IMPROVEMENT. BUT ONE THING I WILL NOT DO THIS SUMMER IS WORK...I NEED A BREAK PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY. THIS WILL BE MY QUITE STORM..BEFORE THE RAINS COMES BACK IN SEPTEMBER. JOHNSON AND WALES HAS SHOWED ME, THAT LIFE IS HARD AND NOTHING COMES WITHOUT HARD WORK, TEARS, AND KNOWLEDGE. I HAVE WORKED SO HARD AND I AM PROUD TO SAY..THAT I HAVE MADE IT.


XOXO


I THANK THIS BLOG..YOU GAVE ME AN OUTLET TO EXPRESS MYSELF IN TIMES OF SADNESS AND JOY.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!!!!!

A mother's love determines how
We love ourselves and others.
There is no sky we'll ever see
Not lit by that first love.
Stripped of love, the universe
Would drive us mad with pain;
But we are born into a world
That greets our cries with joy.

How much I owe you for the kiss
That told me who I was!
The greatest gift--a love of life--
Lay laughing in your eyes.

Because of you my world still has
The soft grace of your smile;
And every wind of fortune bears
The scent of your caress.

FIERCE MAMA'S!!!!!!

WHAT WOULD MOTHER'S DAY BE WITHOUT...

THE FAMOUS, FIERCE, AND FABOULOUS CELEBRITY MOMS. THESE ARE SOME OF MY MOST FAVORITE CELEBRITY MOM'S. THEY ARE ALL SUCCESSFUL, HARD-WORKING, AND TALENTED. THEY LIGHT UP THE RED CARPETS THEN GO HOME TO CHANGE DIAPERS. THEY DO IT ALL...JUST LIKE ANY OTHER MOTHER IN THE WORLD. THIS IS A SALUTE TO THE MOST FABOULOUS MOTHER'S IN HOLLYWOOD.



AND DID I MENTION...THEY ARE O'SO FIERCE!!!!!


XOXOXO

DEAR MOTHER!!!!

DEAR MOTHER,


TODAY IS YOUR DAY!!!! I CAN START THIS BY SAYING HOW GREATFUL I AM FOR YOU OR HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU. BUT YOU KNOW ALL THOSE THINGS AND IF YOU DONT. MOM I AM TRULY GREATFUL FOR YOU AND I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. I REMEMBER A LONG TIME AGO, I USED TO SIT IN YOUR LAP..THAT STOPPED A WHILE AGO BUT OUR BOND IS FOREVER. I STILL REMEMBER THE DAY WHEN I CAME TO COLLEGE AND I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME I CAME HOME FROM COLLEGE..I CRIED. I CRIED BECAUSE THIS WAS MY LIFE NOW AND I WAS SO AFRAID OF HOW I WOULD LIVE IT. BUT AS TIME PROGRESSED, I REFLECTED ON ALL THE RIGHT THINGS I SAW YOU DO. GO TO CHURCH, PRAY TO GOD, WORK HARD, LOVE PEOPLE, AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR BUSINESS. THESE THINGS HAS HELPED ME TO BECOME..WHAT I WOULD THINK A GREAT, RESPECTFUL, SMART, AND INDEPENDENT YOUNG LADY. I AM ALL THESE THINGS BECAUSE I HAVE HAD A GREAT MOTHER FOR 19 YEARS IN MY LIFE AND I PRAY TO GOD FOR YOU TO CONTINUE TO BE ON THIS LAND TO SEE ME LIVE IN NEW YORK, BE ABLE TO TAKE YOU ON SHOPPING SPREES, BUT MOST OF ALL ME LIVING MY DREAMS. I KNOW WE DON'T ALWAYS AGREE BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY WE GO DOWN THE HALL AND LAUGH. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT YOUR JOB WITH ME, SAM, BRIAN, ERICA, AND EBONY IS DONE BUT IT IS NEVER DONE. WE HAVE TO GIVE YOU ALOT MORE GREY HAIR(ONLY FOR YOU TO DYE IT) PLENTY OF LAUGHS, AND A LIFETIME FULL OF LOVE. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!


I LOVE U MOMMY!!!!


P.S.- ALL OF THOSE RESTLESS MORNINGS AND NIGHTS WITH ME..I WILL NEVER FORGET ABOUT AND IM STILL IN DISBELIEF THAT YOU NEVER LEFT ME ALOE, FOR A MINUTE.

MY SISTERS!!!!

FIRST, LET ME START BY SAYING... THAT I LOVE YOU BOTH MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW. WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH TOGETHER AND LOOK AT HOW FAR WE HAVE CAME. EBONY, YOU GAVE ME THE BEST THING IN 2004, NIA. WITHOUT MY NIA, I DONT KNOW WHERE I OR ANY OF US WILL BE. YOU WENT THROUGH ALOT BUT LOOK AT YOU NOW. I REMEMBER I USED TO WANT TO BE JUST LIKE YOU, WHEN I GOT OLDER.(UNTIL YOU KNOW...I BECAME THIS FASHION STUDENT) AS A SINGLE PARENT MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IT IS NOT ALWAYS EASY. THAT'S WHY I TRY TO DO MY PART AND MORE...LIKE BABYSITTING NIA AS MUCH AS I CAN. NIA DOES NOT NEED TO LOOK ANYWHERE ELSE FOR A ROLE MODEL, BECAUSE SHE HAS AN AMAZING ONE I YOU. LOVE U LOTS SISSY POO!!!!!!

ERICA...I WANT TO GO BACK AND I HOPE THIS WILL LET YOU KNOW, HOW MUCH I LOOK UP TO YOU. I REMEMBER THOSE DAYS WHEN MOM WOULD WORK FROM SUN UP TO SUN DOWN. YOU TOOK GREAT CARE OF ME AND SAM. YOU COOKED FOR US, IRONED OUR CLOTHES, DID MY HAIR, AND HELPED US WITH OUR HOMEWORK. YOU BECAME OUR MOM AT A YOUNG AGE, WHILE MOTHER WAS TRYING TO MAKE A WAY. I AM FOREVER GRATEFUL TO YOU FOR THAT. YOUR JOURNEY HAS BEEN A RIDE..BUT YOU MADE IT THROUGH ADVERSITY AND LOOK AT YOU NOW. YOU GAVE ME SOMETHING SO SPECIAL IN JADA. JADA IS A LIGHT THAT IS SO BRIGHT IN ALL OF OUR LIVES. YOU KEEP PROGRESSING AND BECOMMING A BETTER PERSON FOR YOURSELF, US, AND MOST OF ALL JADA AND THE NEW BABY. YOUR KIDS HAS A SURVIVOR, HARDWORKER, AND DEDICATED MOTHER THAT THEY CAN ALWAYS GO TO. LOVE U LOTS!!!!



THIS IS TRULY A BLESSING.


HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!!

TO GRANDMA!!!!!!!

GRANDMA...

I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START. YOU ARE EVERYTHING TO ME. YOU ARE THE ONE WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME, EBONY, ERICA, SAMANTHA, BRIAN, AND MOST OF ALL MY MOM. YOUR ARMS HAS ALWAYS BEEN OPENED WHEN THERE WAS PLENTY OF DARK DAYS. THE THINGS THAT YOU DO, IS AMAZING. YOU HAVE RAISED SEVEN KIDS, TONS OF GRANDCHILDREN, AND NOW YOU ARE HELPING MY SISTER RAISE NIA. I AM SO GRATEFUL TO HAVE YOU IN MY LIFE. NOT ONLY YOU BUT GRANDAD TO. I LOVE YOU AND HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!


HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!